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Unregistered
15-08-13, 10:07
Qerendaxla Qonglarni hormetlex biz uyghurlaning an anivi adetimiz,likin yeqenyaghi bizda azraq oqup bilim alghan bir qesem adamlirmizda chongladin to talixidighan,chongla gap qilsa ularning gepini arliqta boliwetep gap qildighan hatta ata-anisi gap qilwatqanda ularning gepini boliwetep sozlaydigfhan ahwalla kop uchraydighan bop qaldi,mioningcha bu adat iplas hiqtailaning bizning turmuximizgha kirgan nachar tarapliri boliximu mumkin,likin hamma ixlani hahtin korux yahxi adat amas.
Mumkin bolsa qerendaxlaning Alim Abdukerim Rahmanning Qonglarni hormetlex toghrisidiki maqalisini oqup chiqqan bolsa dimachiman.

Rahmat



Qonglarni hormetlex


Abdukerim Rahman (1996)




Uyghur helkhining khaide-yusunliri iqide qonglarni hörmetlex alahide haraktirlik. Buning ipadiliri köp terepte körilidu.

1). Yaxanghan ademlerni körgende ong kholini köksige elip "assalamu eleykum" dep salam beridu. Qonglar bolsa "vaeleykum assalam" dep javap khayturudu. Salam ve javap beja keltürülüp bolghandin keyin ikki khol bilen khol elixip tinqlikh-amanlikh sorixidu. Bu adet yalghuz erlerdila emes, hotun-khizlardimu bar. Lekin ular erler bilen khol elixip körüxmeydu. Yaxanghan ayallar birbiri bilen yüzini-yüzge yekhip körixidu. Yax khizlar yaki qokanlar özidin qong erlerni yaki ayallarni körse "assalam" sözini ixlitip, azrakh igilip tazim khilidu. Yaxlarning yaxanghan ademlerge "yahximusiz" dep bir khol bilen khol elixip körüxix Uyghur helkhining aditige uyghun emes.

2). Yaxanghan ademler ismining ahirigha "dada, tagha, aka, ana, hamma, aqa" digendek hörmet sözlirini khoxup qakhirix eng yahxi aditimizdur. Bivaste ismini atap qakhirix tolimu hörmetsizlik hesaplinidu.

3). Tamakh vakhtida tamakhning aldi qonglargha berilidu. Tamakhning aldini talixix tolimu edepsizlik bolidu.

4). Yaxanghan bir adem öyge kirip kelse, öyde olturghanlar orunliridin turuxup öz hörmitini bildurüx, orun boxitip uning'gha törni berixmu adetlirimiz jümlisige kiridu.

5). Yaxanghan ademler aldidin ötüxmu hörmetsizlik bolidu. Xunglaxkha arkhidin ötülidu. Navada ilajsiz aldidin ötüx toghra kelip khalsa "aldingizdin ötüp khoydum" dep epu sorilidu. Bir sorunda olturghanlar iqide yaxanghanlargha arkhisini khilip olturux - bumu eyip ixlar hesaplinidu. Nailaj arkhini khilip olturuxkha toghra kelip khaghanda "arkham bolup khaldi" dep epu sorilidu. Yaxanghan ademler aldidin at-ulagh yaki velispit minip salam-saetsiz ötüxmu qonglargha nisbeten hörmetsizlik bolidu. At-ulagh, velispittin qüxüp, qonglargha salam berip ötüx Uyghurlardiki eng yahxi adetler jümlisidur. Yaxlar bir yerde toplixip olturghanda ularning aldidin birer yaxanghan adem ötüp khalsa, olturghanlar orunliridin turuxup, salam berip hörmitini bildürüx - bumu Uyghurlardiki yahxi adetlerdindur.

6). Toplixip bir öyge kirgende yaki yol yürgende qonglargha yol beridu. Ulardin yol talixix eyip ixlardin bolup sanilidu. öyge aldida kirivelix yaki yolda qonglarning aldigha ötüvelix bu qonglargha nisbeten hörmetsizlik bolidu.

7). Yaxanghan ademler aldida putni mingexturup yaki uzun sunup olturuxmu edebsizlik bolidu.

8). Yaxanghan ademler bilen yüz turane turup sözlexkende kholini yanqukhigha selip turup yaki kholni arkhigha khilip turup yaki putini oynitip turup sozlixix intayin hörmetsizlik bolidu. Xundakhla qonglar bilen sözlexkende kholini xiltip turup sozlexmu eyip ixlardin bolup sanilidu.

9). Birer yaxanghan adem bir ix khilivatkhan bolsa (asasen jismani emgek) uni körgen bir yax uning kholidin khoralni elip ixlep berix Uyghurlardiki esil ehlakhtur.

10). Ata-ana, ustaz yaki yaxanghan ademler aldida tamaka qekix ve baxkha keypni khilix khattikh hörmetsizlik bolidu. Beziler tamaka qekivatkhan bolsa, qonglarni korgen haman derhal yuxuridu, bu intayin yahxi ehval.

11). Bir hörmetlik adamning aldigha birer ix bilen kirgende kiyim-kiqekni ravurus kiyip kirix yahxi adetlerdindur. Qapanning tügmilirini etmey, qapanning yengini sapmay kirix yaki öst kiyim kiymey maykiqan kirix hörmetsizlik bolidu. 12). Birer sorunda yaki qong kixilerning yinida galni khakhirip tükürüx, mixkhirix khattikh edebsizlik bolidu. Navada tükürüxke yaki mixkhirixkha toghra kelse qetrek haliy jaygha ötüp baxkhilargha sezdürmey ixni bir terep khilix kerek. 13). Qonglar bilen sühbette bolghanda, qonglarning sözige lokhma selix yaki dikh'khitini baxkha yakh'kha burap, itibarsiz muamile khilixmu edebsizlik sanilidu.




Respect Elders


Abdukerim Rahman (1996)


To respect elders is one of Uighur traditional customs. There are several ways to express the custom.

1) When seeing an elder person, one places his palm on his own chest and says: "assalamu eleykum". (Peace be with you) The elder person responses by saying: "vaeleykum assalam" (peace be with you also) After the greetings, they shake hands by holding both hands. This custom applies to both men and women but women are not supposed to shake hands with men. Elder women greet each by touching faces to each other. When young women or girls see elder individuals, they say: "assalam" by banding the upper body a little bit. It is regarded as rude if a young man simply say: "yahximusiz" (how are you) and shake hands by using one hand only.

2) When addressing an elder individual, one of the suffixes of "dada, tagha, aka, ana, hemma, aqa" is added to the elder person's name. Directly calling an elder person's first name is considered very rude according Uighur custom.

3) Food serving is expected to start from the elder person. It is against Uighur custom if one tries to get the food first before an elder person.

4) When an elder person enters a room, the people in the room are supposed to raise and offer their seats to the elder person.

5) To pass in front of an elder person is a disrespectful act. One is supposed to pass from the back of the person. In case one has to pass from the front of the person, the person passing by has to say: "I am sorry for passing in front of you.” It is considered very rude when one passes an elder person on horse or bike without greeting. One is supposed to get down from the horse or bike and greet the elder. This is one of the good customs of Uighur people. When an elder person passes by a gathering of young people, young people are supposed to show respect by standing up and greeting - this is also one of the good customs of Uighur.

6) When a group of people enter a room or walk along together, the elder is given the privilege to enter or go first. To enter before elders is considered disrespectful act towards elders.

7) To cross or stretch ones legs in front of elders is considered rude.

8) When talking to elder individual in person, one is not supposed to put his/her hands inside pocket or put hands behind ones back or play with ones legs. These actions are considered disrespect to elders. It is considered rude if one swings his/her hands in front of elders.

9). When seeing an elder person doing physical work, one is supposed to help him/her out.

10). It is considered disrespect if one smokes, drinks or does other similar things in front of elders. Some people hide cigarettes as soon as an elder person is approaching.

11). When going to an appointment with an elder person, one is supposed to dress-up nicely. Not buttoning up or showing too much skin is considered extremely rude to elders.

12). One is not supposed to clear throat by loud voice, or blow nose in front of guests. In case one needs to blow thier nose, he/she is supposed to go to a private place.

13). When talking to an elder person, it is considered to be rude if one interrupts or pays no attention.

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Unregistered
15-08-13, 10:22
sizning otturigha koyghan mesilingiz we algha surmekqi bolghan idiyingizni kollap kuwetleymen. liken bir nerse enik bolsunki , hitaylarning ata-bowilirigha bolghan itikadi we hormiti , uyghurlarning hormitidin kuqlukrek. xunga bezi misallarni alghanda sel-pel kayil kilarlik misallarni otturigha koysingiz yahxirak bolarmikin deymen.

Unregistered
15-08-13, 11:28
Apandim/Hanim
Siz digandak burunlada hitaylarning ata-bowilirigha bolghan itikadi we hormiti yuquru idi(alwatta bizdamu shundaq),likin yeqenqi zamanda haddidinn artuq nacharlixip katti, bolupmu bir bala tughux siyzsitidin kiyin.
Mining bu yarda birsi bilan munazira qilghim yoq,likin yeqenda oz ata anisigha qattiq tikidighan we chonglani hormatlimaydighan ixtlani korap qilip bu temini bu yarga chaplap qoydum.....

Rahmat




sizning otturigha koyghan mesilingiz we algha surmekqi bolghan idiyingizni kollap kuwetleymen. liken bir nerse enik bolsunki , hitaylarning ata-bowilirigha bolghan itikadi we hormiti , uyghurlarning hormitidin kuqlukrek. xunga bezi misallarni alghanda sel-pel kayil kilarlik misallarni otturigha koysingiz yahxirak bolarmikin deymen.

Unregistered
15-08-13, 14:18
siz digen kaide yosunlar keshker we atushlarde keng kolemde medinyet suputide kollunulidu. manda karap baksak hazir bu kaidilerni engiliye ning hanlik jemetimu hetta fransiye aksongeklirimu teste orundap boldighan kaidiler. qet'ellerdiki uyghur yashliri irinmey "rehmet" deydighan sozni ishlitishni ugensun. amerikida baliri okughanlar bu "rehmet" diyishni herkaqan balilirigha karap ugunuwalidu.

Unregistered
15-08-13, 18:57
Hazirki qonglarningmu taza tayini yok. burunki pixkedem qonglargha ket'i ohximaydu. ya kerighinini tuymighan.

Kerighanda keri tatuk,
kelikliri andin atuk. :mad:
uyghur helik makal-temsilliridin.

Unregistered
16-08-13, 01:15
hazirki qonglarningmu taza tayini yok. Burunki pixkedem qonglargha ket'i ohximaydu. Ya kerighinini tuymighan.

Kerighanda keri tatuk,
kelikliri andin atuk. :mad:
Uyghur helik makal-temsilliridin.

goya sen kirimaydighandek,...?

Unregistered
16-08-13, 05:35
Bu hormet qilishlarni Gollandiyediki bir qisim balilarmu ugense bolatti , bu hormetlerni ammiwi sorunlardimu korushumiz kerek idi epsus!

Unregistered
16-08-13, 18:38
yash digen peqet san. eger sangha layiq tejirbe, eqil, ehlaq bolmisa hormet qilishning hajiti nime? dunya ozguriwatidu, uyghurlarmu orguriwatidu. 21-esirge hosh keldingiz!

Unregistered
16-08-13, 19:06
Men chong qonglarni bekla hormet qilimen