Uyghur Boytaklargha

[Tarim Yilpizi]

Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[yaman]

nimandaq giping tugimes, bashqilarga terbiye birishke amraq adem sen?
hemme ademni ozungdin dot hisaplamsen nime? sanga ajdatlardin qalgan bir sozni hadiye qilay: Bashqilarga terbiye birishke amraq adem ozi terbiyege ang muhtaj.

[Muallaim]

Yaman gha



Tarim Yilpizi sanga nima kildi ?

Yahshi suzni kop kilghanning yamini barma?

Tarbiyani anglashni halimisang uzangning ishi, agar bilarman bolsang sanmu bilginingni otturgha koymamsan ?

Sarangmusan ?

Iqiwaldingmu - qekiwaldingmu ?


Yaki Tarim Yilpizining eytkanliri sening ajallik yeringga kattik tegip kattimu ?








Re: Uyghur Boytaklargha
Posted by: yaman (IP Logged)
Kun: May 26, 2005 03:26AM


nimandaq giping tugimes, bashqilarga terbiye birishke amraq adem sen?
hemme ademni ozungdin dot hisaplamsen nime? sanga ajdatlardin qalgan bir sozni hadiye qilay: Bashqilarga terbiye birishke amraq adem ozi terbiyege ang muhtaj.

[yaman]

Hey, Sarang Muallim,

Tarim ning yazgan hetlirini oqushqa nede waqit bolsun.

Gep qilsang qopal gep qilma, bolmisa gep qilma.

"Ademni jemiyet adem qilmisa gep-soz bilen adem bolmaydu" digen gep bilen " Bashqilarga terbiye birishke amraq adem ozi terbiyege ang muhtaj" digen geplerning manisi chushenmey shilting atma, bir kuni chushinip qalisen mushundaq tola bashqilarni adem qilimen disang.

Inglizlarning bir gipini dep birey bunimu oylap baq"If you want to control others, you will get yourself out of control"


Esli qopal gep qilmay, mulayim bolay digentim, sen tonumaydigan "Muallim" bashta adapsizlik qilding, shunga togra chushinersen.


Tarim dostungge iytip qoy, bir nerse yazsa oz waqtini qadirlisun hem bashqilarningmu waqtini qadirlep, az yazsun saz yazsun, amdi gipimni choqum chushendinggu deymen?

[yaman]

ogul bala, ashu setenglarni rasa kelturup, tizrak boyteqliqingga hatime birishingni umit qilimen.

Mendek boytaqliqni tallighan, bir hotun bilen yashiyalmaydiganlar sanga behit tileymiz.

[yar]

Ak tanlik, altun qaqlik, puldar, bay, yash wa hesiyatqan ayalni izdap sarang bolghantim, amdi taptim, amma tunjukup kaldim, qunki u ayal tolimu sesik - badbuy, suyushka rayim zadila yok, amdi kandak kilay ?

Tezdin yardam barsanglar,


Bir boytaktin

[jiddi]

jiddi yezilghan nersilerge caqcaq qilmanglar

[yaman]

san u hotunni sisik disangkansa disang yahxi bolmasliki mumkin, xunga, birer ammiwisorunda sisiklikini bildur, andin baxkilar bizar bolsa, u ayal andin hijil bop ozgertixi mumkin,we sini sisiklikimga qidap turuptu dap sini tihimu yahxi koridu,

Man mining hitay bay , qiraylik hotunumni xundak kilip aran qoxka goxi yimaydigan kildim.

Asli Uyghur kizi alay digantim, karisam weten sirtida uyghur kizlar qet'allike amrakken, weten iqide hitayga amrakkan, ogullarmu xu. Xunga qidap hitay hotun iliwattim.

[Hitay]

Hitayni hoton kilghuqa mada eshakni hotun kilsanglar bolmasmu yaman?




Hitaynimu hotun dap elishka bolamdikan ?

Silar yawa tongguzlarningmu hitaydin saskinip yurgunini kurmidinglarmu ?

Hitayni hotunlukka alghan bolsanglar, amdi silini qoshka damduk, yaki hitaymu ?











Re: Uyghur Boytaklargha
Posted by: yaman (IP Logged)
Kun: June 1, 2005 12:17AM


san u hotunni sisik disangkansa disang yahxi bolmasliki mumkin, xunga, birer ammiwisorunda sisiklikini bildur, andin baxkilar bizar bolsa, u ayal andin hijil bop ozgertixi mumkin,we sini sisiklikimga qidap turuptu dap sini tihimu yahxi koridu,

Man mining hitay bay , qiraylik hotunumni xundak kilip aran qoxka goxi yimaydigan kildim.

Asli Uyghur kizi alay digantim, karisam weten sirtida uyghur kizlar qet'allike amrakken, weten iqide hitayga amrakkan, ogullarmu xu. Xunga qidap hitay hotun iliwattim.

[hotun]

Hotun elishta paraz aylang!

Hotun halisa alidighan, halisa satidighan mal amas !

[yaman]

buradirim, konglungni chishinimen, likin amal yoq. mini ya uyghur qizliri yaratmidi, shunga Hitaymu adamgu dap aliwerdim, kiyinche musulman qiliwalaman, hazir hiristiyan.

[london]

Dostlar,


Nuwatta An`giliyada 52 napar kiz-qokan boytak, 43 napar yigit - ar boytak bar, bizda kiz kup, amma heq bilmiduk boytak, boytak, yanila boytak bolup ketiwatimiz, kandak kilsk bolar ?

[ahmak]

Ahmaq, Engilyediki kizlar chet'ellik ar tapalmay aware, oghullar chet'allik kiz tapalmay aware.

Bu UK diki kizlardin madda ishak yahshi.

[atilla]

men mu boytaq yigit.
freehunmen@yahoo.com

[engilyelik]

ale tilgha noci bolsang!

[engilyelik]

qeni siz wang hitaydek wang wang sozlewatatingiz
dimingiz bir yerge kettimu ya
birer yerge kirip ketmigensiz ?

[Unregistered]

Wang hitay digan kim?

[Unregistered]

wang hitay digen hitaylarning hemsidu ?

[Unregistered]

kimni bak suzlap katti dap zarlawatisiz?







qeni siz wang hitaydek wang wang sozlewatatingiz
dimingiz bir yerge kettimu ya
birer yerge kirip ketmigensiz ?

[Unregistered]

ale tilgha noci bolsang!

burun men mushu UAA betige bek kop kirettim, hazir heptide bir qetim kiridighan bop qaldim. nimishqa? chunki admin mushundaqlargha yol beridiken hemde yazghinini ochurwetmeydiken. likin men bu betke yahshi maqale yizip bersemmu, bashqilar mushininggha ohshash nachar tillar bilen bir nerse yazghanda, admin koz yumdi.

hazir bu betke kiridighan adem azlap qaldi, sewebini admin ozi bilidu.

[Unregistered]

Bu betning oqarmenlerning azlap ketkenligi nachar tillar bilen tillaydighanlarning sani aziyip ketkenligi. UAA ning beti mushundaq bolishi kerek. yalghanchi aldamchilar bu meydandin yoqalghili yaghshi boldi. Bet sanini ashurimiz dep qiliqsiz nersilerning hemmisini yezishqa bolidighan sesip ketken axmaqlarning ugusigha aylanghan Meshrep.comgha kirip ozingizni axmaq qilip oynang. Uyghur digen meshrep.comgha oxshash chiwinlerning ugusidin waz kechkende hem uninggha rediye bereligen cheghidila adem bolidu.


burun men mushu UAA betige bek kop kirettim, hazir heptide bir qetim kiridighan bop qaldim. nimishqa? chunki admin mushundaqlargha yol beridiken hemde yazghinini ochurwetmeydiken. likin men bu betke yahshi maqale yizip bersemmu, bashqilar mushininggha ohshash nachar tillar bilen bir nerse yazghanda, admin koz yumdi.

hazir bu betke kiridighan adem azlap qaldi, sewebini admin ozi bilidu.

[Unregistered]

boytak kizlar janni tola kiynimisanglar kandak?


man zadila uhliyalmaydighan bolup kaldim.........











Bu betning oqarmenlerning azlap ketkenligi nachar tillar bilen tillaydighanlarning sani aziyip ketkenligi. UAA ning beti mushundaq bolishi kerek. yalghanchi aldamchilar bu meydandin yoqalghili yaghshi boldi. Bet sanini ashurimiz dep qiliqsiz nersilerning hemmisini yezishqa bolidighan sesip ketken axmaqlarning ugusigha aylanghan Meshrep.comgha kirip ozingizni axmaq qilip oynang. Uyghur digen meshrep.comgha oxshash chiwinlerning ugusidin waz kechkende hem uninggha rediye bereligen cheghidila adem bolidu.

[Unregistered]

gapni az kilish, hoja akanggha hotun kerak, hotun!

amma pekir Uyghurdin bashka hotunlargha hargizmu rayim yok, bilishtingmu ?


qunki ak qoshka, kara tongguz, serik kuquk ... hammisi sesik, badbuy, yarimas, pok, hu ...........












Bu betning oqarmenlerning azlap ketkenligi nachar tillar bilen tillaydighanlarning sani aziyip ketkenligi. UAA ning beti mushundaq bolishi kerek. yalghanchi aldamchilar bu meydandin yoqalghili yaghshi boldi. Bet sanini ashurimiz dep qiliqsiz nersilerning hemmisini yezishqa bolidighan sesip ketken axmaqlarning ugusigha aylanghan Meshrep.comgha kirip ozingizni axmaq qilip oynang. Uyghur digen meshrep.comgha oxshash chiwinlerning ugusidin waz kechkende hem uninggha rediye bereligen cheghidila adem bolidu.

[boytak uyghur yigit]

uyghur kiz yok, uyghur hotun yok, aila yok, parzand yok, umrum mushundak utup ketarmu?


arga tegishni halaydighan, eri yok kizlar, yaki yeshi 30 din tuwan qokanlar barmu? agar bolsingiz men bilan alaka kilghan bolsingiz, qunki men bakla aila kurush ghemida bolup ketiwatiman, amma muwapik ayal kilishi tapalmaywatimen, yat millatni elishka kunglum zadila barmaydu.


agar uyghur ayal zadi bolsingiz, boyatk bolsingiz, sizmu aila kurushka, parzand kurushka intilsingiz, kim bilidu bir kunlarda men sizning suyumluk eringiz, siz mening wapadar ayalim bolup bolup kelishsak ajap amas.


alaka kilarsiz, shundakla ali hurmitim bilan

e-mail kilarsiz: w88888d@yahoo.com










Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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men sizga tegay, siz meni eling, amma soratdighinim yetarlik pulingiz, uyungiz ham turmushka kapalitingiz barmu?


yaki mokum maash kiridighan yahshi ish orningiz barmu?







uyghur kiz yok, uyghur hotun yok, aila yok, parzand yok, umrum mushundak utup ketarmu?


arga tegishni halaydighan, eri yok kizlar, yaki yeshi 30 din tuwan qokanlar barmu? agar bolsingiz men bilan alaka kilghan bolsingiz, qunki men bakla aila kurush ghemida bolup ketiwatiman, amma muwapik ayal kilishi tapalmaywatimen, yat millatni elishka kunglum zadila barmaydu.


agar uyghur ayal zadi bolsingiz, boyatk bolsingiz, sizmu aila kurushka, parzand kurushka intilsingiz, kim bilidu bir kunlarda men sizning suyumluk eringiz, siz mening wapadar ayalim bolup bolup kelishsak ajap amas.


alaka kilarsiz, shundakla ali hurmitim bilan

e-mail kilarsiz: w88888d@yahoo.com

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erga tegamsiz yaki pulghimu?


meningqa aila ar - ayalning ortak makanighu daymen?








men sizga tegay, siz meni eling, amma soratdighinim yetarlik pulingiz, uyungiz ham turmushka kapalitingiz barmu?


yaki mokum maash kiridighan yahshi ish orningiz barmu?

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albatta uyghur arga tegish kerakku?





erga tegamsiz yaki pulghimu?


meningqa aila ar - ayalning ortak makanighu daymen?

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Hitayni hoton kilghuqa mada eshakni hotun kilsanglar bolmasmu yaman?




Hitaynimu hotun dap elishka bolamdikan ?

Silar yawa tongguzlarningmu hitaydin saskinip yurgunini kurmidinglarmu ?

Hitayni hotunlukka alghan bolsanglar, amdi silini qoshka damduk, yaki hitaymu ?











Re: Uyghur Boytaklargha
Posted by: yaman (IP Logged)
Kun: June 1, 2005 12:17AM


san u hotunni sisik disangkansa disang yahxi bolmasliki mumkin, xunga, birer ammiwisorunda sisiklikini bildur, andin baxkilar bizar bolsa, u ayal andin hijil bop ozgertixi mumkin,we sini sisiklikimga qidap turuptu dap sini tihimu yahxi koridu,

Man mining hitay bay , qiraylik hotunumni xundak kilip aran qoxka goxi yimaydigan kildim.

Asli Uyghur kizi alay digantim, karisam weten sirtida uyghur kizlar qet'allike amrakken, weten iqide hitayga amrakkan, ogullarmu xu. Xunga qidap hitay hotun iliwattim.


trihta (ABDULKAREM ABBASOPTAK) MILLY QAHREMANLARMU TATAY BILAN TOY KILGAN AMASMU?

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trihta (ABDULKAREM ABBASOPTAK) MILLY QAHREMANLARMU TATAY BILAN TOY KILGAN AMASMU?


Tarihtin hawiring yok ikan buradar, u bolsa (abudekiram Abbassop) milli munapik, ixanmisang ata-bowangdin sorap bak.

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Dot abudekiram Abbassop qoshka hitay bilan toy kilghan, abudekiram Abbassop hitay tarapindin ulturulugandin keyin, hitay hukumiti abudekiram Abbassopning hitay hotundin bolghan ikki balisinimu darhalla rehimsizlarqa ulturup tashlighan, ' tuhumidin kurutush' tadbiridin keyin abudekiram Abbassopning hitay hotuni inkilap mezgilida fashist hitaylarni abudekiram Abbassopning koru - jayida mukundurup kutkanzghanlighining mukapati suputida hitay merkizi hukumuti bu hitay kanjukni merkezda alahida imtiyaz bilan bodapla kalmay yana kopligan inkilapqi uyghur - kazak katarliklarni ''azadlik'' tin keyin tutkun kilish, ulturushka bash komandan kilghan, nuwatta bu jalap Amerikida hozur - dawalinishta ...









Tarihtin hawiring yok ikan buradar, u bolsa (abudekiram Abbassop) milli munapik, ixanmisang ata-bowangdin sorap bak.

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tarim yilpizi bu makalini aldinki yili yazghan idingiz, shunqa wakittin beri uzingizga birar muwapik jura tapalidingizmu, yok?









Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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gapni az kilish, hoja akanggha hotun kerak, hotun!

amma pekir Uyghurdin bashka hotunlargha hargizmu rayim yok, bilishtingmu ?


qunki ak qoshka, kara tongguz, serik kuquk ... hammisi sesik, badbuy, yarimas, pok, hu ...........


Angla aghine!
sen beshida ozengge men ozem qanchilik digen soalni qoiup bahtingmu?
Her millette yahshi yamanliri bolidighu?Uyghurdimu hem.
Belki bashqa milletning qizliri hem seni yaratmaslighi mumkin.
Gepni chong qilmaili dostlar!

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Yavropa qizliri bilen arliship otsek yaki toilashsaq nime bolaptu zadi?
yauropa qizliri:kozliri yeshil,chashliri seriq uzun budre chach,alamet sexsy!

Peqet nadan balla bundah chiraili qizlarning qedrini bilmeidu.

Mening bundah qizladin bir emes,bir nechchisi ba.
Hazir mana ularning birsidin telfon keldi men barai soyumlugumning yenigha.
Biraq Uigur qizlarmu chirailik,eger ular yenimda bolmisa,men buyerde yalghuz bir Uigur bolsam,qandaq qilishim kirek? elvette etrapimdiki yauropa qizlirigha hujum qilishim kirek,qopqan desmini silap yatqiche.

ozimizning Uigur qizlirnimu seghindim!
Uigur qizliri bolsa manga het yazarsiler.

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Uyghur yigitlarga mayli nimila bomisun yanila Uyghur kizliri yahshi.

Uyghur kizliri uzumizning tenimiz, kenimiz, yimaklikimiz, madaniyitimizning bir tarkiwi, tatlik, kolaylik, yepishkak, yarimas yeri zadila yok !


agar uyghur kizi yok dowlatta bolsingiz, amal kilip watandin uyghur kizini watan siritigha elip qikishka tirishqanlik kursutung, badal tulang, kandaka kiling yanila uzungiz uqun, kandak didim?


agar zadila amal, bolmisa, uyghur kizi sizga nesip bolmisa, uyghur kizidin taliyingiz kalmisa, amalsiz yeshil kuz, serik qaq, shundakla bedbuy - sesik yawropa kizlirigha arlashmaymen diyalamsiz?


men utkanki neqqa yillardin beri tilgha pishshiklighim, kamlashkanlighim, pulum hem yolumgha taynip heli qiralik yawropa kizlirigha iga bolup, sirlik keqilarni birga utkuzgan bolsamma, tolimu apsus heq birsidin kunglum azrakmu su iqmidi, amma neqqa ketimlap hu kiliwettim, nimishka badani qiraylik, qirayi qiraylik, hulki qiraylik, amma teni sesik, aghizi sesik, suygusi sesik - badbuy - yirginishlik - kusuk ?



Ah Uyghur kizi sen meyli set bol, meyli sen keri bol, meyli sen nakar bol, meyli sen .... sen yanila mening arzu - umudum !











Yavropa qizliri bilen arliship otsek yaki toilashsaq nime bolaptu zadi?
yauropa qizliri:kozliri yeshil,chashliri seriq uzun budre chach,alamet sexsy!

Peqet nadan balla bundah chiraili qizlarning qedrini bilmeidu.

Mening bundah qizladin bir emes,bir nechchisi ba.
Hazir mana ularning birsidin telfon keldi men barai soyumlugumning yenigha.
Biraq Uigur qizlarmu chirailik,eger ular yenimda bolmisa,men buyerde yalghuz bir Uigur bolsam,qandaq qilishim kirek? elvette etrapimdiki yauropa qizlirigha hujum qilishim kirek,qopqan desmini silap yatqiche.

ozimizning Uigur qizlirnimu seghindim!
Uigur qizliri bolsa manga het yazarsiler.

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yilpiz jenim/henim



tolimu yahshi oylapsiz, atiraplik yezipsiz, kunglumdiki gapni kipsiz, rahmet.

bolsa muwapik kiz - qokanlarning alakilishish adreslirinimu koshup awatkan bolsingiz, kandak oylaptimen?









Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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yilpizdin adres sorighuqa, awal singlingizning adresini uninggha barsingiz bolmasmidi?


hemme erkaklar singlisining adresini, kizlar hem boytak hanimlar uzlirining adresini yilpizgha barmisa, yilpiz nadiki adresni sizga awatidu?


boytak hanimlar, kizlar adresinglarni yilpizgha awatkan bolsanglar, andin biz sizlar bilan alakiliship, tonushup, aila barpa kilip, uyghurlarning urukini sap saklap kalsak bolatti , hey boytaklik .........




yilpiz jenim/henim



tolimu yahshi oylapsiz, atiraplik yezipsiz, kunglumdiki gapni kipsiz, rahmet.

bolsa muwapik kiz - qokanlarning alakilishish adreslirinimu koshup awatkan bolsingiz, kandak oylaptimen?

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wang hitay -- bu Londondiki ABLAT, Hotanlik Ablat, Ablat senmu jenim ?

Ablat hotun balasida bezida wang hitay, bezida wang tatay, bazida wang momay ... turmush yaman, tehi tunugun qushluk tamakta Ablat shundak waysighan, hey Ablat, kizgha amrak Ablat, kara kiz, serik kiz, uyghur kiz, hetta M ... nimu kop yighlatting ....





qeni siz wang hitaydek wang wang sozlewatatingiz
dimingiz bir yerge kettimu ya
birer yerge kirip ketmigensiz ?

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ablatning turkiyadiki hotuni arga tagdimu?



londondiki hemit hitay sewaplik, u biqara hotun ablatka tartiship, arga tegalmay, londonda ablat hemit hitayning tozughudin kutulalmay jan taliship shundak ketiwatidu, kandak ablatning hotunini hotun kilish hiyalingiz barmu?





meryamni yighlatkan ablat amas, emma hemit qoshka.
meryamga ablatning yuziga shapilak saldurghanmu dal hemit qoshka.
meryamga ablatning yuzini tatlatkanmu del hemit qoshka.


ablatka yalghandin meryamning ikkinqi kizlighini aldurghanmu dal hemit qoshka.

ablat bashka kizni s... dep, ablatni har kilghan yanila hemit qoshka.


rahilani yighlatkan, meryamni yighlatkan, nuryani kahshatkan, ramilani urdurghan, reyimani har kilghan .... hemmini kilghan hemit qoshka


ablat isyanqi, siyasatqi, namayishqi, sazqi, nahshiqi, tuhumqi, amma silik tawuz, yaman amas insan, shundakla hemit hitayning kurbani


ablat boytakka hotun bolidighan bir tul hotun londonda yokmu?

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eziz uyghur engliz hotun aptu, ablat uyghurmu engliz hotun alsa bolmamdu?

boldi turkiyadiki hotunni boldi kiling



ablatning turkiyadiki hotuni arga tagdimu?



londondiki hemit hitay sewaplik, u biqara hotun ablatka tartiship, arga tegalmay, londonda ablat hemit hitayning tozughudin kutulalmay jan taliship shundak ketiwatidu, kandak ablatning hotunini hotun kilish hiyalingiz barmu?

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rehima digan biqariga hemit qoshkuning kesila yukmaptimu?





londonda tongguzlar bar, amma hemit hitaydin kesal yukup kalmisun dap, tongguzlarmu nijis hemit hitaydin keqiwatidu

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ablat digan inkilapqi uni gajimisanglar kandak?

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A Simple Way to Feel Better and Be More Attractive



As we rush through our busy days accomplishing our tasks– work, kids, shopping, cleaning, and eating on the go, we often complain that we don’t feel good. There is a simple and effective way to feel better throughout the day and be more attractive.

All you have to do is smile more.

Smiling changes your attitude, whether you realize it or not. If you have any doubts, the next time you feel down, start smiling and thinking positive thoughts and see what happens.

You can’t help but have a better attitude when you smile.

Smiling also raises your confidence.

Smiling affects our emotions because of a brain-body connection. It triggers scientifically measurable activity in the left frontal cortex, the area of the brain where happiness is registered.

In fact, there is science dedicated to the study of facial expressions and responses called FACS – Facial Action Coding System. Your face has 44 muscles between the skin, cartilage, blood, and bone that you flex and contort. This lets you make over 5,000 different types of expressions. That’s a lot of expressions! Moreover, each will have a different affect on your feelings and those looking at you.

We instantly become more attractive when we smile. Admit it, when someone is smiling, aren’t you drawn in? Don’t you enjoy that person’s company more? We all do. Smiling is an important part of connecting and getting to know someone.

It is amazing how good smiling is. As your life-coach, I offer you this push. I want you to smile. Go ahead. SMILE!

Let’s do it again but this time breathe in through your nose, let it out through your mouth and smile as you let the air out. Doesn’t that feel good? The breathing is very important. Your nostrils are attached to the limbic system. The limbic system controls your emotions, and when you breathe in deep through your nose, it has a calming effect on you. So breathe in and smile.

Let’s add a final touch, positive thinking. It doesn’t hurt to get excited and say to yourself out loud, “I feel good and I am taking control and finding my opportunities!” Go ahead and do it. Feel that positive energy in your body and the release of tension.

Now that you know how good smiling is for you, make a conscious effort to use this smile exercise a minimum of six times throughout your day. When you smile, remember to breathe in through your nose and think positive thoughts. This I guarantee will make a positive impact on your day and in your life.

In fact, the result from this simple exercise will have a huge effect because a basic fact about energy is that energy is attracted to energy of a similar frequency. So when you smile not only will you be making yourself feel better, you will also be attracting positive energy into your life.

So smile!

















Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Unregistered]

When ex is bad role model, find mentors


My ex is the worst role model for my son.

Q. He’s sexist, selfish, and acts like an arrested teenager. I’ve been trying to find suitable mentors for my 7-year-old but even his scout group seems on the edge of Hey! Watcha looking at? so they can find a reason to rough wrestle. Is my son destined to be a tough guy who wants to push girls around and show off in front of friends?

A. Your son will be destined toward a certain amount of male behavior that is inherent among the young testosterone set. Hormones, brain chemistry and certain instincts possibly left over from early male ancestors all contribute to what makes guys different from females. This is not a bad thing: it just presents problems for moms trying to raise sons alone especially if they’ve never had brothers or other boys to grow up with.

Even as a feminist sympathizer, I know that males and females are different. And after attending a local hockey game last night, I’m convinced that most males--at least some time during their lives--thrive on that head-butting, high-five kind of competitive roughness. Your husband may or may not be a good role model for your son for a number of reasons, but if he’s just a rough and tough kind of guy who otherwise is safe to be around, your son should spend time with him. He’s got you to balance his emotions so letting him get doses of masculinity in the form of competitive sports, loud talk or even occasional “no girls allowed” type gatherings, is actually healthy.

What parents and other caregivers need to remember is that boys should be allowed to experience a wide range of emotions, something we attempt to stifle when we think it’s not masculine or it’s wimpy for a boy to behave a certain way. It’s important that role models let boys feel sad, disappointed, or scared without making them feel like “boys aren’t supposed to cry.” Understandably, it’s hard for a guy to let his son talk about his emotions when his dad didn’t raise him with gentleness. But remember that your son’s father may connect with him emotionally in ways that may be different from yours.

In 22 Ways to Raise a Boy’s Emotional Intelligence by Will Glennon, one dad writes: “My dad had a knack for knowing exactly when I needed his love and support. He was the usual absent dad most of the time, but as far back as I can remember, he always showed up and did just what I needed at the right time.” Your son can benefit from contact with his dad, the scouting group, engaging in sports, and being paired with a mentor through a local mentoring organization such as Big Brothers/Big Sisters (call 215-567-7000 or go www.bbbsa.org to find a local chapter). By offering all kinds of male role models he’s be able to take the best parts of each and form a patchwork quilt of masculine identities and traits that work best for him.

Keep in mind that although men should teach boys to be more sensitive, to tease less, and try to temper their aggressiveness, some traits are so ingrained by our culture, that these changes will take time. Watch the double standard, avoid labels, don’t shame, tease or ridicule are some more ways suggested in 200 Ways to Raise a Boy’s Emotional Intelligence to help them develop their sensitive side. Get a copy and share it with your ex and those who will benefit by reading this indispensable guide for parents, teachers and other concerned caregivers.











Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Unregistered]

MOMs (Mothers Outside of Marriage) Rising




MOMs have been the majority since 1998 in the USA, when 53 percent of call first births were to single women!

With all the press—good and bad—that single mothers have received in the past, you’d have thought a headline like this would have made it to the front page of every newspaper in the country that year. After all, single mothers have been a hot item since Dan Quayle made Murphy Brown “real.”

The study—the Census Bureau’s first finding in 60 years—reports that for the first time, the majority or 53 percent of “first births”—someone’s first child—were either conceived by or born to an unmarried woman.

The federal study showed that the percentage of children conceived by single people is relatively unchanged from the 1930s, but the percentage born to unmarried parents has increased fivefold.

Confused? Don’t be. What this means is that yes, people in the 1930s were having sex outside of marriage, but if children resulted, marriage happened. Today, shotgun marriages are over and more women who have children without being married are staying single one, two, even five years or more.

Unlike the rise in teen pregnancies that appeared in the 1980s, today’s MOMs represent women in their 20s and 30s. While the fraction of unwed teens who were moms fell from half during the 1970s to a third in 1996, the number of MOMs in their 30s has doubled. Other studies note that for professional women (including doctors and lawyers), the rate has tripled since the past two decades.

What does this mean? Marriage experts and researchers theorize that the demise of the shotgun marriage is because gender roles are blurring as men and women are acquiring similar skills. The economic reasons to marry have diminished. Also, it’s not that women don’t want marriage, they just want a good one with an equally participating partner. Very few women say, “I’ve got this fantastic Alan-Alda-diaper-changing man but I’m just not going to marry him.” If they were able to wave a magic wand and have Mr. Right, they would. But settling for Mr. Adequate, let alone Mr. Wrong, is just not what most women want today.











Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Rachel]

Looking for Single Moms Who Are Dating Again


"Hello! I'm writing my dating memoir, "Single Mom Seeking," which chronicles the humor, pitfalls, and rewards of balancing the complexities of parenting when coupled with my search for Mr. Right.




To check out some of my writing, check out my column at Literary Mama, www.literarymama.com, called "Single Mom Seeking."

You can go there directly right here:

http://www.literarymama.com/columns/goingitalone/


I'd love to hear from other single moms out there who are dating again.

I'd eager to hear about your fears and thrills.

What have your experiences been?

What have you learned about being patient when it comes to introducing a man to your child?

Are you more cautious now that you're a mom?

Have any of you had one-night stands?

Have any of you found your next love?

Please write!

Feel free to contact me at: singlemomseeking@comcast.net

Warmly,
Rachel
"
















Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Rachel]

Single Mom Seeking



The fourth floor of the Holiday Inn Pleasant Hill reeks of old cigarette smoke. The deep voice of a TV newscaster seeps under the door, out into the empty hallway I'm walking down. I've emptied my backpack of cracker crumbs and crayons for everything I need tonight: my toothbrush, a pair of Levi's, clean underwear, and condoms. I’ve also brought along some food to accompany the wine that I look forward to sipping. I'm just a few miles from where I grew up in these conventional suburbs.

But at this moment, I'm so far from anything conventional. I'm a good mom, but I'm also a bad girl.

My bad girl — the part of me that exists despite all the responsibilities, tasks, and pressures of single-motherhood — hasn't emerged in a long time. She's not exactly bad. She's this desperate part of me that wants so badly to do things that might be out of character and risky. She makes her most dramatic appearances when I'm feeling out of control with balancing the demands of being a single mom with the need to maintain adult relationships.

I rap on the door and Conner opens it. He's wearing a white, flowing cotton shirt with all the top buttons undone and loose-fitting cotton pants. I smile at him and think, You're my angel.

"Hi," I whisper. My voice is shy.

When I step into the dark room, I expect him to kiss me or embrace me. But he turns off the TV, sits down on the edge of the bed, and lights a cigarette.

We don't say a word, but I'm smiling. I step over to the coffee table and pull my picnic supplies out of their brown bag, setting them up on the paper plates I've also packed. There are sweet purple grapes, fancy salted crackers and cheddar cheese. I even brought along a knife and small plastic cutting board to chop up the green apple into small perfect slices. My routine comes effortlessly. This is so easy, in fact, that I almost forget that I'm making a snack for a sexy grown man who's ready to make love to me. Silly me, I'm so used to cutting everything into bite-sized pieces for my five-year-old daughter!

"This is weird," Conner says.

"What is?"

"Everything. You don't just go to a hotel room with someone you don't know and have a picnic."

I hold the knife in mid-air. You don't? Why isn't he grateful? Isn't this every man's dream, to have an attractive woman he hardly knows spend the night with him at a random hotel?

Maybe this was all a very bad idea. Maybe I should just turn around and go home.

Somewhere in the back of my mind, my Catholic mother is talking to me. What on earth are you doing, Rachel? What if he's a serial killer? What if he has a disease? Is it really worth it?

I push those thoughts away and I sit down on the bed, close to Conner but not touching. I'm not willing to give up the possibility of wild night this easily. Conner is looking down at my thighs, which peek out of my tight jean skirt. I shaved my legs in a quick shower this afternoon, as my daughter played dolls in her room, and the lotion makes them gleam. I nervously clasp my hands in front of me.

"It's all going to be okay?" I say to Conner, raising my voice in a sweet inflection.

This is exactly what I often say to my kid when she resists doing something, like going to the dentist.

Goodness, the transition from mom to bad girl is going to be a little tougher than I thought. I barely know Conner — we've only been on one date — so for a single mom like me, going back to my place is not an option. And if I don't know a man very well, going back to his place could be unsafe. Personally, I like to get creative in neutral spots, like a hotel room.

"Want some wine?" Conner says, offering me his glass.

That's when I notice the bottle of white wine on the bedside table, already opened. I take a very long swig, emptying the glass.

***

I first saw Conner behind the counter at the local bed store he manages. He had his back to me. He was at least six feet tall, and his head was shaved. I have this thing for men who shave their heads, and when I saw him — his smooth head beautifully shaped — I wanted to reach out and wrap my hands around it.

He turned around and I saw that he had big, deep brown eyes and a beautiful open face. I started to sweat.

"Hi. Can I help you?" His voice was deep and smooth, and his eyes looked straight into mine.

"I'm just fine, thanks!" I responded a bit too enthusiastically. But I wasn't just fine. I was red. I have this tendency to blush madly when I’m embarrassed or as the case may be, terrifically attracted to someone. I went around the corner, glowing.

My hands were hot, and I pretended to read the price tags: $115, $225, $400. My mind was a blank. What size mattress did I have again?

"Let me know if you need my help-- "

There he was, right behind me. All the bed frames around me blurred together, and I stopped breathing as I rounded the corner.

Focus! I commanded myself. Don't forget what you're here for! But my mission had changed.

What was I here for again? A mattress? Or a man?

Yes, it was very fitting to meet him in a mattress store. After all, given my frame of mind, I was in need of some good loving.

***

This is supposed to be perfect. In Room 404, there is no daughter needing her hair washed and combed, no baked potatoes and butter to fix, no parent-teacher conference to prepare for, no dishes to clean in the sink. It is simple: just me, my man, and one big bed. The shades are closed; we have total privacy. In case we get hungry, our picnic is spread out.

What can I say? I'm a mom who's always prepared and ready to feed any hungry mouth! Of course, all of my accessories are at hand, too: condoms and lube.

I strip. Since giving birth, I have absolutely no qualms about being naked. I got over that when the two birth center nurses watched me shit in the hospital bed just before I pushed my daughter out. My stretch marks are a badge of honor and pride, not something to be embarrassed about.

When I fall back on the bed, Conner lies next to me, still dressed.

He reaches out and strokes my hair. What's he waiting for? C'mon!
I reach out and tug on his cotton pants. My fingers sleep under the elastic and skim his dark skin.

"Stop!" he says, uncertainly. "You're tickling me."

He stands up and turns off the bedside lamp. In the darkness, he slides out of his pants and lies down next to me. His shyness amuse me.

"How about your shirt?" I ask, fingering a white button.

"I don't want you to see my chest."

"Why not?" I ask.

"I don't work out like I used to."

"So? You're gorgeous!"

I unbutton the button.

"No, really," he says.

"C'mon, Conner, if anyone should be embarrassed about her chest, it's me! I'm the one who breastfed for almost three years."

He takes a deep breath and pulls his shirt over his head. I crawl on top of him and lick his nipples.

"Mmmm, nice," I hum, working my way down his tense belly to his cotton briefs.

Feeling how nervous he is only makes me more excited. I gently kiss him above the elastic. He moans.

I slowly pull off his underwear and roll a condom on his hard and long dick. I climb back onto his lean body, breathing us in. This is it.

When I look into his eyes and see how focused he is -- on me -- I'm in control. I move my hips and he gently takes hold of me. I devour this attention. He hits my G-spot and I groan. I come quickly.

When he slides out of me, I'm surprised. Is that it? He pulls the condom off with a snap and grips my hips, drawing me onto my back.

He's over me, entering me suddenly, the tip of his dick. We're unprotected. I freeze.

"Don't -- " I say, vulnerably.

"Please," he says. "I just want to feel you, just for a second -- "

Our connection is so strong: we're playing that childhood game of looking into another person's eyes, neither of us blinking, just holding on for as long as possible. I don't want to let go of this, I don't want to lose this.

His cell phone is ringing on the table.

I jump away. He reaches out to answer his phone.

"I can't talk right now, baby," he says. "No, everything's fine, I'm just finishing some business here. I'll call you back soon."

I have no doubt that he's talking to his "ex"-girlfriend.

When I sit up, the mother in me is back. Making a snack feels so ordinary. I slice cheese on the tiny hotel table. I try to hold onto that feeling of both of us so connected: his fingers pressing the small of my back, mine wrapped around his smooth head.

The bad girl says this was all worth it, this intimacy with a man, when his lips glide over my neck, his fingers trace my spine, and his eyes say I want you. She has no regrets.

But as I move away from him, a voice inside me is reprimanding: Now look at what you've done. What the hell were you thinking? You might die. This reprimanding voice is familiar — it's my Catholic mother, a descendant of a long line of women who tried to do well by the church but often failed. She's treating me like a child, judging me for my wrongdoing. My mind goes straight to self-loathing, as she scorns this bad girl in the worst way.

On my way home, desperation arises all over again, and when I climb the stairs, there's my new silver bed frame with its matching table.
















Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Rachel]

The Men in Our Lives



Today, my three-year-old daughter brings a picture home from her North Berkeley preschool. Drawn on a large piece of newsprint, Mae has very curly hair and big blue shoes. I'm the one on the right with straight hair. And in the middle, there's a very happy Stuart Little. This is her family portrait -- as if this mouse is the man in our lives.

When my daughter, Mae, was seven months old, her father disappeared, leaving us a note that said, "As much as I love and need you both, I feel that you are better off without me for now . . ."

That first night alone, Mae started to vomit in the middle of the night, seemingly without reason. Every time she nursed, my milk spewed all over the bed. When I called the nurse practitioner at 3 a.m., she told me, "Let yourself grieve. And let your daughter grieve. She feels the loss, too."

Mae was already saying our names. For days, she sat on our living room floor, asking, "Da Da? Da Da?" I didn't know what to tell her. That he would come back? That it wasn't her fault?

For months, I couldn't sleep. Our king-sized bed was enormous with just the two of us. I tried to sleep on the outer edge, with my daughter in the middle. I waited for her father to knock at the front door. He had to come back.

It wasn't supposed to be like this. I'd imagined Mae and her father, Eric, laughing on the floor together every morning. Unlike me, he had rhythm -- I'd imagined them dancing together on our hardwood floors. I'd invested in an expensive breast pump, so that he could feed our daughter if I had a work meeting or was out with friends. He was supposed to be here . I'd thought that Eric would sing to her every night before bed. I always thought it would be his role to teach her to stand up for herself, if the boys at school teased her. Nurturing was my strong point; I thought Eric would be the one who set limits with her. How would she ever learn how to have healthy relationships with men, when there wasn't one around? When I opened my eyes again, the truth was obvious: it was just two of us in this enormous bed.

One evening in mid-December, Mae and I walked over to a diner on Second Avenue for some soup. I always wore my hair pulled back. My eyes were foggy and sad. I didn't have a belt for my jeans, and they were barely hanging on my hips. I'd gone from 120 pounds to 105 pounds in four weeks. I carried a big black shoulder bag everywhere, stuffed with Mae's clothes, diapers, toys, my journal. It only clasped on one side.

An older African-American couple was sitting next to us. They could've been Mae's paternal grandparents (who were dead). They were cooing at Mae, and telling me how lovely she was. I could barely look at them. They paid their bill and got up to leave. Then the woman came over and said to Mae, "You're an angel." She handed me a ten-dollar bill.

I chocked out an inaudible, "Thank you."

After they left, I burst into tears. How could I ever do this alone?

I worried that Mae would grow into a mournful, sad child. But she appears to be confident and happy. Her teachers tell me what a poised and composed little girl she is. I'm so relieved, and a little in awe about how it's all turning out this way. Maybe it's because she has my undivided attention. Maybe it's because we hang out with a lot of single-Mama families. Maybe because these days, rather than waiting for her father to return, I'm opening myself up to the possibility of loving another man again.

Or maybe it's because she has two Grandpas nearby who dote on her, who teach her the things that I can't. They give her what her biological father has never been able to. My Dad, who lives in San Francisco, picks Mae up from preschool two days a week for hours of silliness on the swings. Without fail, they always go out for a meringue cookie. On weekends, we drive out to the suburbs to swim with my step-Dad in his pool. Mae's uncle in NYC regularly sends Mae care packages in the mail. And we have play dates with children whose fathers are devoted and caring role models.

She knows that her family is different than alot of her friends' families at school. Although she has never asked me about this fact, it seems to be a part of her thoughts. My daughter's imaginary friends, Dee Dee and Da Da, live with their Mommies, too. (By the way, Da Da is a six-year-old girl.)

"Their Daddies live far away," Mae explains to me about Dee Dee and Da Da.

"Where do they live?" I ask.

"Very, very far away." She tells me this in an upbeat voice. "Their Mommies take them out for ice cream every night and they have a cat that sleeps with them, too." (Hint, hint.)

Her father does live very, very far away -- he never made a reappearance, and his family seems to think he's living in Ireland. I wonder what she'll think as she gets older. I wonder what she will ask me about him. Sometimes, I worry that she will look for his love in all the wrong ways.

Today my Dad comes back with Mae from the playground and proudly praises her artwork. He asks me how Mae knows who Stuart Little is. I tell him that during a 24-hour rainstorm last weekend, we went to the mall for our first time, and a life-sized Stuart Little puppet was greeting all the kids.

"I blew him a kiss, Grandpa!" Mae beams. "He caught it and put it right here!" she adds, rubbing her heart.

Indeed, somehow she seems to be finding and giving love in all the right places. And teaching me how to do the same.











Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Rachel]

Are You My Daddy?



Mae hops on the swing at our local park. "Push me super high!" she tells Hunter, our neighbor.

We met Hunter when we moved to Berkeley two years ago. Mae and I were on an afternoon walk. Hunter was bent over a well-known "art car" around the corner, gluing plastic fruit to its side. Mae was immediately drawn to him (and the car). As time passed, Hunter and I developed a deep platonic friendship. Nowadays, he often drops by our apartment with books and clothes for Mae.

Just as Hunter is pulling the swing back, ready to let go, Mae turns her head.

"Are you my Daddy?" she asks him.

Hunter grips the swing tighter. "I'm kind of like your Daddy, because I care about you," he answers. "I guess you could call me your Godfather."

"What's God?" Mae asks.

Hunter laughs, knowing that he's in for it now.


* * *

I am at the courthouse, staring at the clerk in front of me. The fluorescent lights shine across her forehead. She just asked me if I'm filing for physical custody, sole custody, or both. The clock above her points to noon. I lean into the beige counter. It is too tall for me. A line of people snakes behind me.

"Excuse me?" the clerk says, impatiently.

"Both," I say, immediately unsure about my answer.

"You'll need to run a summons in the newspaper," she says, shooing me away. "Next!"

"A summons?" I want to ask her. "What is that, exactly?"

I'll summon you to come back here and face me like a man. I'll summon you to pay up for four years of diapers, shoes, groceries, rent, and preschool. I'll summon up the courage to erase all your rights.

I take a step backwards and go into the dim hallway, where I sit down on the cold tiled floor. I hold my knees to my chest and look up. The hand on the clock points to five minutes after twelve. I watch the minute hand go round and round, pointing to every little black line.

You've missed every point in her life. Her first steps, her first song, her first "I love you," her weaning, her hair done up in little braids, her first day of preschool, her first time spelling her own name.

Back at home, I call the newspaper and pay $800 to run the summons four weeks in a row: "You are being sued . . . . You have 30 calendar days after this summons and petition are served on you . . ."

Over the next few months, I submit pages to the judge, with all the lines filled in. I detail the points chronologically: when he left us, the attempts I made to reach him, the futility of it all. Two days before Mae's fourth birthday, the judge pounds his gavel in front of the court room. He calls out my name. As I rise, my face goes red with worry.

"Sole and physical custody granted!"

I feel his voice resonate through me.


* * *

"Daddy! Daddy! Daddy!" Mae chases Grandpa around my apartment.

He laughs uneasily: "I'm not your Daddy!"

But immediately, I notice a pang of regret in his face. Mae has never called my father "Daddy" before. Yet he and I know that it is not supposed to be like this. The truth is that my father is the man in her life: the one who takes her to the toy store, buys her new shoes, and catches her on the slide.

After Grandpa leaves, I wait for it. That question: "Mommy, who's my Daddy?"

I've been waiting for four years for that question. Framed on our living room wall is a little picture of her father. He sits with three-month-old Mae on a friend's sofa. He stares ahead blankly, looking distressed.

The last time Mae and I were looking at the photos on our wall, I told her, "This is your father. He helped bring you into the world and--"

She leapt up, leaving my sentence hanging.

"Let's play Chutes and Ladders!" she said. Evidently, it was not the time to talk about it.

I try and put myself in her world. All the dads she knows push their daughters on the swings and toss them high into the air. She does not know who this bald man in the picture is.

The next day, one of Mae's four-year-old school friends comes over to play. I am making dinner in the kitchen. Mae's friend bounds over to me: "Does Mae have a Daddy?"

What hurts at a moment like this is the fact that she does have a biological father, but not one who cares about her like a Daddy should.

"Yes," I say, my fingers tightly squeezing the wooden spoon.

"Then where is he?"

"He lives far away," I say. "But she has her Grandpa here," I add, a bit defensively.

That night, after reading Mae's bedtime story, I bring up the subject. I want to know if her friends at school have asked if she has a Daddy.

"Yes," she whispers.

I hold my breath, waiting for her to ask me that huge question.

"What do you say?" I whisper back.

"Mom, I just say that I don't have one!" she puffs back at me, all matter-of-fact and cheerful.

I sigh, relieved that she seems so confident with her single-mama family. But I know this won't be her answer forever.












Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

[Rachel]

Single Mom Seeking



"I am a warm and generous single mom seeking a respectful and cooperative man who dreams big with both feet on the ground. I love long embraces, café con leche, and anything curried."

This is my Match.com profile. Actually, this is my Match.com profile after cutting the references to "steam rooms" and "skinny dipping" (which my girlfriends said smacked too much of sex).

Here is one of the first messages to arrive in my inbox:

"Just read your profile and wanted to tell you that I have been looking for someone like you. Something about the strength of a single mother is very attractive to me. Please read my profile and drop me a note if the spirit moves you."

I feel rewarded. This stranger has no idea that at the end of every day, I'm run ragged. There are bags under my eyes, and yesterday's sandwich crusts still sit on the kitchen counter. My daughter is screaming from the bedroom right now: "But I don't want to go to bed like a big girl!"

And here's a man who finds this attractive? Little does he know.

There's a P.S. at the bottom: "My profile says I prefer women a bit older than you . . . and typically I do. But there are exceptions to everything."

I am smiling at my screen. Don't we all love the thrill of being someone's exception?

Yet, when I click on his profile, I'm confused. Next to the space for "Want kids," G. has filled in, "Not sure." If he's not sure, then why is he contacting me?

Still, upon reading about the rest of him, I decide to ignore the "Not Sure" part. He writes, "I'm 40. Happiness is not terribly complicated for me. A warm place. Coffee in the morning with something to read. The observations of someone I find wise." He is a divorced businessman who likes "bluegrass music, movies that make me sad, old things, sunshine on my face, and being warm."

In our first few e-mails, we discover that both of us played the saxophone in high school and often hike through Tilden Park. I notice how often he uses ellipses . . . I do that, too!

G. wants to get together for a glass of wine, but I'm cautious. I rarely drink, and just one glass of wine gets me off balance. I would have to leave my car behind and take a taxi. Certainly, he would insist on driving me home and planting a long kiss on my lips.

Pre-baby, the thought of meeting some man I didn't know -- across town in a small, dark bar -- pumped me up. I would have jumped on a wild night like this one. But nowadays, I've got to get home and take care of my girl. Today, as a single mom, the adrenaline rushes I used to seek from men have to come in safer ways, like winking at the cute cashier behind the counter or squeezing that gorgeous waiter's arm on my way out the door.

I suggest a phone conversation with G. first. He sends me his number. After Mae goes to bed, I call him on my cell phone. There's a loud echo. I'm nervous, and I can't hear what he's saying.

"What?" My voice is tense.

"I said, 'Am I your first match boy?' "

I laugh. "Was it that obvious?"

This is the first time I've tried online dating. I always thought you had to be really desperate to do this, but necessity is the mother of invention. It seems my only chance to meet men over the past few years has been at the grocery store and the pizza joint. Not really hot-spots for true love. I work from home and spend my weekends at kid-friendly places where there are lots of cute married men.

In the photos, G. looks nothing like my usual type. My ex-husband was a muscular modern dancer from Pamplona, Spain. The father of my daughter was a 6' tall African-American construction worker from the Bronx. And here is G., white, 5' 7", with salt and pepper hair, a Kentucky native with a strong southern accent.

After an optimistic round of e-mail, I finally agree to meet G. in person. I can't get to bed. I'm jittery, wondering if he'll like the real me, this overtired, often-cranky single mom. I'm excited, too, caught up in a bedtime fantasy of this businessman whisking my daughter and me off to his castle to live happily ever after.

The night before our date, I check my e-mail one more time. (Okay, I check it three more times.) G. writes, "I keep thinking about tomorrow like it's Christmas morning, and I'm ten. Only with more trepidation."

I'm flattered. G. says that meeting me compares to Christmas morning! And, wow, I even make him nervous.

I get to the coffee shop two minutes before G. and hold my breath when I see him walking briskly around the corner. He looks just like my father did 15 years ago. It's uncanny. They are exactly same height, with the same hair and similar body types. To top it off, I find out they are both headhunters in San Francisco.

At first, I wanted to rush the other way and stand him up. Dating a man who resembles my father? That's TOO weird! But then I'm filled with a nostalgic comfort. Maybe I've finally picked my match. After all, I adore my father.

He has walked right past me -- I'm sitting on a bench outside the busy café -- so I get up and follow him. We hug in the doorway of the café, invitingly, as customers file past us. Then we sit down to eat oatmeal with maple syrup. We talk about our past relationships, his battle with cancer, and my life as a single Mom. He tells me that he's going to be 41 on Monday.

I laugh: "So, that will make you one whole decade older than me!"

"Please don't say that--"

But I want to say so much more. I really yearn to tell him much he reminds me of my father -- the only man in my life who has loved me unconditionally, and the only man who has been there for my daughter, always. It makes me feel weak inside my chest. Falling in love with a man who reminds me of my father? Initially, the whole idea is innocent and sweet. On second thought, it's rather disconcerting.

Then I remember that this is only our first date. My entire life, I have conveniently skipped the dating part of relationships. After the initial oh-this-is-fun-and-he-adores-me, I have jumped into the thick of it. But motherhood has changed me.

That's because it's not just about me anymore. I'm not going to bring a man home after a few dates for some wild passion under the sheets. (Come to think about it, my daughter is getting a "big girl bed" for her fourth birthday.) The truth is, whenever I think about dating Him -- whoever He might be -- my daughter pops into my mind. Would she like him? Would he respect her? Would this man understand that her needs would always come before his?

Now I know I don't have to make up my mind on the first date. Motherhood has forced me to grow up. I am less desperate to be with a man, and more cautious about whom I go out with. I can ask G. questions and process the answers. I can observe our interactions and think about them. I don't have to rush into anything.

I'm not just seeking any man. I'm keeping both feet firmly planted on the ground as I seek a man who is truly right for both my daughter and for me. Maybe G. was right. There is something about the strength of a single mother.










Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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Rachel, a single mom seeking Uyghur husband, is there any Uyghur single man for Rachel?








Single Mom Seeking



"I am a warm and generous single mom seeking a respectful and cooperative man who dreams big with both feet on the ground. I love long embraces, café con leche, and anything curried."

This is my Match.com profile. Actually, this is my Match.com profile after cutting the references to "steam rooms" and "skinny dipping" (which my girlfriends said smacked too much of sex).

Here is one of the first messages to arrive in my inbox:

"Just read your profile and wanted to tell you that I have been looking for someone like you. Something about the strength of a single mother is very attractive to me. Please read my profile and drop me a note if the spirit moves you."

I feel rewarded. This stranger has no idea that at the end of every day, I'm run ragged. There are bags under my eyes, and yesterday's sandwich crusts still sit on the kitchen counter. My daughter is screaming from the bedroom right now: "But I don't want to go to bed like a big girl!"

And here's a man who finds this attractive? Little does he know.

There's a P.S. at the bottom: "My profile says I prefer women a bit older than you . . . and typically I do. But there are exceptions to everything."

I am smiling at my screen. Don't we all love the thrill of being someone's exception?

Yet, when I click on his profile, I'm confused. Next to the space for "Want kids," G. has filled in, "Not sure." If he's not sure, then why is he contacting me?

Still, upon reading about the rest of him, I decide to ignore the "Not Sure" part. He writes, "I'm 40. Happiness is not terribly complicated for me. A warm place. Coffee in the morning with something to read. The observations of someone I find wise." He is a divorced businessman who likes "bluegrass music, movies that make me sad, old things, sunshine on my face, and being warm."

In our first few e-mails, we discover that both of us played the saxophone in high school and often hike through Tilden Park. I notice how often he uses ellipses . . . I do that, too!

G. wants to get together for a glass of wine, but I'm cautious. I rarely drink, and just one glass of wine gets me off balance. I would have to leave my car behind and take a taxi. Certainly, he would insist on driving me home and planting a long kiss on my lips.

Pre-baby, the thought of meeting some man I didn't know -- across town in a small, dark bar -- pumped me up. I would have jumped on a wild night like this one. But nowadays, I've got to get home and take care of my girl. Today, as a single mom, the adrenaline rushes I used to seek from men have to come in safer ways, like winking at the cute cashier behind the counter or squeezing that gorgeous waiter's arm on my way out the door.

I suggest a phone conversation with G. first. He sends me his number. After Mae goes to bed, I call him on my cell phone. There's a loud echo. I'm nervous, and I can't hear what he's saying.

"What?" My voice is tense.

"I said, 'Am I your first match boy?' "

I laugh. "Was it that obvious?"

This is the first time I've tried online dating. I always thought you had to be really desperate to do this, but necessity is the mother of invention. It seems my only chance to meet men over the past few years has been at the grocery store and the pizza joint. Not really hot-spots for true love. I work from home and spend my weekends at kid-friendly places where there are lots of cute married men.

In the photos, G. looks nothing like my usual type. My ex-husband was a muscular modern dancer from Pamplona, Spain. The father of my daughter was a 6' tall African-American construction worker from the Bronx. And here is G., white, 5' 7", with salt and pepper hair, a Kentucky native with a strong southern accent.

After an optimistic round of e-mail, I finally agree to meet G. in person. I can't get to bed. I'm jittery, wondering if he'll like the real me, this overtired, often-cranky single mom. I'm excited, too, caught up in a bedtime fantasy of this businessman whisking my daughter and me off to his castle to live happily ever after.

The night before our date, I check my e-mail one more time. (Okay, I check it three more times.) G. writes, "I keep thinking about tomorrow like it's Christmas morning, and I'm ten. Only with more trepidation."

I'm flattered. G. says that meeting me compares to Christmas morning! And, wow, I even make him nervous.

I get to the coffee shop two minutes before G. and hold my breath when I see him walking briskly around the corner. He looks just like my father did 15 years ago. It's uncanny. They are exactly same height, with the same hair and similar body types. To top it off, I find out they are both headhunters in San Francisco.

At first, I wanted to rush the other way and stand him up. Dating a man who resembles my father? That's TOO weird! But then I'm filled with a nostalgic comfort. Maybe I've finally picked my match. After all, I adore my father.

He has walked right past me -- I'm sitting on a bench outside the busy café -- so I get up and follow him. We hug in the doorway of the café, invitingly, as customers file past us. Then we sit down to eat oatmeal with maple syrup. We talk about our past relationships, his battle with cancer, and my life as a single Mom. He tells me that he's going to be 41 on Monday.

I laugh: "So, that will make you one whole decade older than me!"

"Please don't say that--"

But I want to say so much more. I really yearn to tell him much he reminds me of my father -- the only man in my life who has loved me unconditionally, and the only man who has been there for my daughter, always. It makes me feel weak inside my chest. Falling in love with a man who reminds me of my father? Initially, the whole idea is innocent and sweet. On second thought, it's rather disconcerting.

Then I remember that this is only our first date. My entire life, I have conveniently skipped the dating part of relationships. After the initial oh-this-is-fun-and-he-adores-me, I have jumped into the thick of it. But motherhood has changed me.

That's because it's not just about me anymore. I'm not going to bring a man home after a few dates for some wild passion under the sheets. (Come to think about it, my daughter is getting a "big girl bed" for her fourth birthday.) The truth is, whenever I think about dating Him -- whoever He might be -- my daughter pops into my mind. Would she like him? Would he respect her? Would this man understand that her needs would always come before his?

Now I know I don't have to make up my mind on the first date. Motherhood has forced me to grow up. I am less desperate to be with a man, and more cautious about whom I go out with. I can ask G. questions and process the answers. I can observe our interactions and think about them. I don't have to rush into anything.

I'm not just seeking any man. I'm keeping both feet firmly planted on the ground as I seek a man who is truly right for both my daughter and for me. Maybe G. was right. There is something about the strength of a single mother.

[ZZZuk]

Show me quality uyghur men---I haven't met one yet. Where are they? I would love to meet them ;) No offends....

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Dear ZZZuk


How is your quality?

Are you mentally, physically, culturally and morally well enough be a wife for a Uyghur men?

If you are a single woman (Miss, or Mrs), and then why not meet up with a Uyghur men in UK?

You should aware in UK have few Uyghur Gentleman, if you lucky enough and then you will have a Uyghur Husband as few English, Scottish, Irish, Welsh and other girls have Uyghur Husband, why not?

Be positive, go ahead and good luck sweetheart!






Show me quality uyghur men---I haven't met one yet. Where are they? I would love to meet them ;) No offends....

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Hi ZZZuk

If you want and then e-mail me: w88888d@yahoo.com






Show me quality uyghur men---I haven't met one yet. Where are they? I would love to meet them ;) No offends....

[Unregistered]

are you looking for Uyghur husband?




Hi ZZZuk

If you want and then e-mail me: w88888d@yahoo.com

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this e-mail address is for girls, who looking for Uyghur husband.



are you looking for Uyghur husband?

[Uyghur kizliri]

维吾尔族女青年赴浙江打工


时间: 2006-3-31 8:32:00 新疆日报网
　　

　　3月29日，在伽师县委、县政府的组织下，首批经过三个月缝纫技能和汉语培训的近百名维吾尔族女青年启 程赴浙江嘉兴市务工，由此拉开了该县向内地劳务输出的序幕。
　　

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Xinjiang Gezitining bugunki hitayqisidiki hawar:

Uyghur kizliri Jiejiang Ulkisiga ishligili mangdi






Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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维吾尔族女青年赴浙江打工


时间: 2006-3-31 8:32:00 新疆日报网
　　

　　3月29日，在伽师县委、县政府的组织下，首批经过三个月缝纫技能和汉语培训的近百名维吾尔族女青年启 程赴浙江嘉兴市务工，由此拉开了该县向内地劳务输出的序幕。
　　

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Xinjiang Gezitining bugunki hitayqisidiki hawar:

Uyghur kizliri Jiejiang Ulkisiga ishligili mangdi

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维吾尔族女青年赴浙江打工


时间: 2006-3-31 8:32:00 新疆日报网
　　

　　3月29日，在伽师县委、县政府的组织下，首批经过三个月缝纫技能和汉语培训的近百名维吾尔族女青年启 程赴浙江嘉兴市务工，由此拉开了该县向内地劳务输出的序幕。
　　

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Xinjiang Gezitining bugunki hitayqisidiki hawar:

Uyghur kizliri Jiejiang Ulkisiga ishligili mangdi

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uygurlarnig chatallardeki seyase harkat sapirimizda dayim kozimizga chiliqip turedegan yigey tiptekey yalgan tilsemat (demigratiya dawa kiliwatqan) hitay millatchilliredur, hitay millatchillirey tarihta comonisim koklawatqan mazgillarda (hamma berga yayrap sayrap berga alga besip berlikta gullinishimiz kirak) degan pikerni jakarlash arkilik Ahmatjan qasim bashchiligedeki ukumushlok uygur rahbarlarni aldap yuqutop ber payda algan bolsa mana bugun 21- aserda komunistliknig bazery kasatlashsa dmigratiyani tashabbus kilguchi ber bulok hitaylarnig dunya seyasse sahnisedin urun elip aq kugul uygur seyasatdanliremiznig diqqatlireni uziga jalip kilishedur,
Ang kulkilik yerey ular uzi mawjut bolop uygur rahbarliremiznig dikkitini jalip kilipla qalmay ular bilan berlikta harkat kilish kilmaslik berlikta harkat kilganda junggunig berlikiga berputunlikiga hormat kilgan halda dimigratiyanila tashabbus kilip harkat kilish degan mawzuda uygurlarni datalash qa selishedur,
qarang nima degan aqillik hiligar hitaylar bu?
na gomindage
na komunise
na dmigratchise
bolsun turkistanni quyiwatkuse yokku hajab? masela shundaq torop tarihta nacha on qetim burnimizga yigan torop hitaylar bilan muamila kilish qa nimindaq amraq millat biz?
togra bizga demigratiya kirak unigdinmu muhimi arkinlik mustaqillik kirak amasmu? yake biz arkinlikimiznimu shu demigratchi hitaylardin tastiklitip andin talap kilamduk?
nima dap seyase rahbarliremiz arkin azada dunyada yashap turop arkin azada uygur ga has akaklik bilan mardana piker kilmaydu?
hitaylar komunist bolgan zamanlardemu komunizimnig olchimiga layik amas jungguche komunizim qorde.
biz nimishqa demigratiya talap kilmaqchi bolsaq turkistancha uygur kilachigiga mas ber hil arkin azada demigratiyanig gipini kilmaymiz?
yikinda arkin radio da Shaer Ahmatjan osman seyase tahlil bayan kilip mundaq dede
(DALAY LAMA arkinlik edeysedin waz kichip nimixqa ALI aptunumiya talap kilidu deganda 1-unig bu hil edeyseni amerka bashchiligedeki jahanger dolatlar kuchap qolliyalmaydu wahkazalar.
amerka qollimisa arkinliktinmu waz kichish kirakmu?
demigratiyachi hitaylar narase bolsa turkistannig mustaqillikidin ber darja paslap aptunumiya talap kilamduk?
ata ugun umu eger gapkan desa uttura aptunumiya bolsamu biringla damdok?
hay biz mustaqil bulushqa tigishlik haq egillirey torop dalay lamani dorap deywanidak chigini barmisegiz kichigini biring damdok?
hormatlik uygur qerindashla hitaylar dimigratiya bulamdu bolmamdu taraqqey kilip asmanga taqeshamdu adil bolop har ber uygurga ber tatayni hizmat ka selip beramdu unigga biz rase boilmasligimiz mustaqilliktak buyuk gayimizdin harguzmu paslab barmasligimiz kirak.
uzul kusul mustaqil bulishimiz dal biznig gayimiznig ustun bulisheda wa pikremiznig arkin harkitimiznig uzloksiz dawam etishidadur.


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Hurmatlik Uyghurlirim hem Uyghurqa Tamaklargha Tashnalar:



Agar siz Uyghurqa tamaklarni yahshi kursingiz, shundakla Uyghurqa tamaklarni tayyarlashni uganmakqi bolsingiz, '' UN TAMAKLIRI WA KORULMULARNI TAYYARLASH TEHNIKISI '' digan kitapka nazar tashlang. Bu kitap Xinjiang Pen - Tehnika Neshiriyati teripidin 2000 - yil 7 - ayda Urumqida Neshir kilinip tarkitilghan, shundakla nuwatta Urumqidiki Ghalibiyat Kitaphanisida hem bashka kitaphanilarda setilishi mumkin (agar tugap ketmigan bolsa).



'' UN TAMAKLIRI WA KORULMULARNI TAYYARLASH TEHNIKISI '' digan bu kitapka kop sanlik hem kop turluk Uyghurqa Tamaklar, tayyarlash usulliri, tehnikilik talapliri, hem yetakqa birilgan, sizga, sizning ailingizga hem Uyghurqa tamaklargha herismanlarga her jahattin kungulluk ustaz bolalaydu.



'' UN TAMAKLIRI WA KORULMULARNI TAYYARLASH TEHNIKISI '' digan bu kitapka:

1. Un Tamakliri - Bughday uni, Konak uni, Guruq uni, Purqak uni, hem bashka unlardin tayyarla`ghan tamaklar.

2. Gushsiz taamlar.

3. Issik korulmilar.

4. Soghak yimakliklar

5. Kawaplar

.... hem shuninggha ohshash turlarda etilidighan turluk tamaklarni tayyarlashka keraklik ham eshyalar, tayyarlash usul - tehnikisi, reng - purak - tam - shakil alahidilikliri hettaki yap - iqip hozurlinishkiqa bolghan taraplarmu tapsili tonushturulghan.


Biz yengi toy kilghan waktimizda zadila tamak etalmayttuk, emma uzumizning Uyghurqa tamaklirini tolimu seghinattuk, keyinqa watandiki bir dostimiz hem uning yoldishi '' UN TAMAKLIRI WA KORULMULARNI TAYYARLASH TEHNIKISI '' digan bu kitapni Urumqidiki Ghalibiyat Kitaphanisidin setiwelip, bizga yani Amerikigha awatkandin keyin, bu kitapning talimati boyuqa tamaklarni sinak kilip etip, kop utmayla turluk Uyghurqa tamaklargha bimalal uz uyumizda eghiz tegalaydighan bolduk.



'' UN TAMAKLIRI WA KORULMULARNI TAYYARLASH TEHNIKISI '' digan bu kitap watan siritidki barlik kerindashlirimizgha yahshi ustaz bolup, uz tamikimizni uzga allarda tayyarlash - hozurlunush hem bashka millatlardin bolghan dostlargha Uyghur mediniyitini tonushturushta unumluk rol oynaydu. Sinap kurung.







Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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amirkida musulman kizlarni musulman yigitlarga tonushturush orni barmu?

agar bolsa kandak alakilishimiz?

undak orunlardin uyghur kizlar qikip kalsa ajap amas








Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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kiz tonushturush orni tolimu kop.

kizlighini azghina pulgha satidighan kizlarmu az amas.

sizga kiz lazimmu?

hotunmu kerakmu?

yaki wakitlik hawayi hawasmu?





amirkida musulman kizlarni musulman yigitlarga tonushturush orni barmu?

agar bolsa kandak alakilishimiz?

undak orunlardin uyghur kizlar qikip kalsa ajap amas

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yeshi 18 larda bar shundakla qiraylik kizlarning kizlighining nuwattiki bazar naki kanqilik?

rast kizmu?




kiz tonushturush orni tolimu kop.

kizlighini azghina pulgha satidighan kizlarmu az amas.

sizga kiz lazimmu?

hotunmu kerakmu?

yaki wakitlik hawayi hawasmu?

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Londondiki bir kizdin email alghan idim, birak nima boldi yokap ketti, agar hayat bolsingiz het yezing, email kiling, sizni kop seghindim, amma alaka uzulup ketti, nimila bolmisun alaka kiling, jenimmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm





yeshi 18 larda bar shundakla qiraylik kizlarning kizlighining nuwattiki bazar naki kanqilik?

rast kizmu?

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u kizning ismi rachelmu?




Londondiki bir kizdin email alghan idim, birak nima boldi yokap ketti, agar hayat bolsingiz het yezing, email kiling, sizni kop seghindim, amma alaka uzulup ketti, nimila bolmisun alaka kiling, jenimmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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ismi mohim amas, mohim bolghini uning ahlaki, akidisi, hem imani, u kizda shular barmu?




u kizning ismi rachelmu?

[Unregistered]

nimishka birakla yokap kattingiz?


nimishka hat yok, hawar yok, ulturay damsiz meni ........




Londondiki bir kizdin email alghan idim, birak nima boldi yokap ketti, agar hayat bolsingiz het yezing, email kiling, sizni kop seghindim, amma alaka uzulup ketti, nimila bolmisun alaka kiling, jenimmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[nadan]

uzaklarda veten kaldi...
ata-anam zar kahxap
kaqan kilisen balam dep
her secdide ming yighlap

yighlima ana sevri kil
nale peryatni boldi kil
vetenge peryat halaldur
evlatka.. yigha haramdur.

atip koyduk behitsizlikni
yaratkan canibi allagha
oldi dep kiqip kettuk
rahat parhat baghlargha

yikilghanni yolimestin
dessep ottuk iqinmay
veten digen perzentni
hain kilduk hudukmay

nime veten ,nime millet
nime baylik, nime danglik
veten ,milletni bilmise
tongkuz uqun kotanilik

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Men boytaklar tizimlikidiki biriji tiptiki boytaklarga kirimenmu nime?
Bir az korkunushluk he!

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Yarimas Nomussiz Sherepsizler Bashqa Ishinglar Yoqmu?????????????

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Uyghur yigitlarga mayli nimila bomisun yanila Uyghur kizliri yahshi.

Uyghur kizliri uzumizning tenimiz, kenimiz, yimaklikimiz, madaniyitimizning bir tarkiwi, tatlik, kolaylik, yepishkak, yarimas yeri zadila yok !


agar uyghur kizi yok dowlatta bolsingiz, amal kilip watandin uyghur kizini watan siritigha elip qikishka tirishqanlik kursutung, badal tulang, kandaka kiling yanila uzungiz uqun, kandak didim?


agar zadila amal, bolmisa, uyghur kizi sizga nesip bolmisa, uyghur kizidin taliyingiz kalmisa, amalsiz yeshil kuz, serik qaq, shundakla bedbuy - sesik yawropa kizlirigha arlashmaymen diyalamsiz?


men utkanki neqqa yillardin beri tilgha pishshiklighim, kamlashkanlighim, pulum hem yolumgha taynip heli qiralik yawropa kizlirigha iga bolup, sirlik keqilarni birga utkuzgan bolsamma, tolimu apsus heq birsidin kunglum azrakmu su iqmidi, amma neqqa ketimlap hu kiliwettim,


nimishka badani qiraylik, qirayi qiraylik, hulki qiraylik, amma teni sesik, aghizi sesik, suygusi sesik - badbuy - yirginishlik - kusuk ?



Ah Uyghur kizi sen meyli set bol, meyli sen keri bol, meyli sen nakar bol, meyli sen .... sen yanila mening arzu - umudum !


Bu yerde yat milletleni haqaretlep tehimu ozimizning dushminini kopeitip nime qilimiz,bizge paida elip kilemdu bu?oilap beqing qeni.
Undah set,yeqimsiz qizlar yaki ademler her bir millette ba emesmu elvette Uyghurladimu bar.

Biz etrapimizdiki yat millerni hormetlep (meili ular qaisi millet qaisi irsiyet bolushidin qeti nezer) biraq hitailar buning sirtida,u eblehleni amal bolsa kogenla yerde jailash kirek.
Dostluq ornutup Uyghurlani tonushturshimiz kirek.

bumu veten millet uchun qilivatqan kureshlirmizning azraq bir qismi bolup hisablinidu.

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biz paskash, lalma, bezgak, toha poki, raswa hitaydin bashka herkandak bir millatni hakaratlimaymiz, balki hurmatlaymiz.


hitayni hakaratlashtiki sewaplar sanaksiz, qunki hitaylar shundak maraz - iplas tursa, biz hakaratlimayli disakmu hitaylar bizni shundak kilishka majburlawatsa, bizda hitayni hakaratlimaslikka yana nima amal ?






Bu yerde yat milletleni haqaretlep tehimu ozimizning dushminini kopeitip nime qilimiz,bizge paida elip kilemdu bu?oilap beqing qeni.
Undah set,yeqimsiz qizlar yaki ademler her bir millette ba emesmu elvette Uyghurladimu bar.

Biz etrapimizdiki yat millerni hormetlep (meili ular qaisi millet qaisi irsiyet bolushidin qeti nezer) biraq hitailar buning sirtida,u eblehleni amal bolsa kogenla yerde jailash kirek.
Dostluq ornutup Uyghurlani tonushturshimiz kirek.

bumu veten millet uchun qilivatqan kureshlirmizning azraq bir qismi bolup hisablinidu.

[Taylor]

men hem igiz, hem musulman - uyghur kizdin birni izdaymen.
semiz bolamdu, oruk bolamdu, kop okughanmu, yaki azrak okup kalghanmu, bu qong masila amas.


masila, Uyghur bolushi, uyghur tili yahshi bolushi ang aldinki shart.
Undin kalsa musulman bolushi shart, halal yaydighan, halal iqidighan, halal muamilida bolidighan bolushi shart.

bek sat bolmisa daymen, ishkilip muwapik bir uyghur bardur dap oylaymen, qunki hemmila adam jupti bilan bir yaritilarmish, hotunsiz, parzandsiz utup ketishka, yalghuz ulup ketishka nisip kilmisun dap tilaymen.


hotun dapla eliweray disam, atirapimda heli qiraylik setanglar bar, tegay daydu, amma Uyghur bolghanlighim uqun, kalbimni - tenimni - jenimni Uyghur uqun atap koyghanlighim uqun bashkilarning kolining uquni tutkummu zadila kalmaydu, shunga yeshim 30 gha takishay dap keliwatsimu men tehiqa yigitmen. 20 naqqa yil yigit bolup utush asan amas, amma akida - ahlak - iman bolsa bu asan ishkan.



englishqa bilmisa halisa uzam ugutumen, hem shundakla halisa mektapta mahsus okutumen. ishlashni halisa meyli, halimisa mayli, men bakalaymen, shundakla heq bolmighanda 3 kiz, 3 oghul parzandim bolsa digan umuttimen.


men bakla igiz, 179 kg, tamakni kop yaymen, kuldak ishlashni, begdak yiyishni yahshi kurumen, harak - tamaka - kimar - yalghanqilik - poqiliklardin yirakmen. bazida herip - qarqap ketsam keqta uhlighanda horakmu tartip koyudikanmen (bazida shundak bolidikan, men bilmidim, amma dostim shundak didi)

men nuwatta mashina sodisi, remontqilik, yuk toshush, top tarkitish katarlik ishlarni kilidighan bir shirkatta mokum ishlaymen, kirimim yahshi, uyum bar, hammer mashinam bar, tamak etishka heli epim bar, kiyimlarni yuyush, uy tazlash, pakiz yurush mening aditim, hetta sakal - burutlirimnimu her kuni pakiz kirip, badanlirimni pakiz tutup yurushni yahshi kurumen.


taylor98765432@yahoo.com arkilik men bilan alaka kilisharsizlar, kandak?

mening uyghurqa ismim bar, amma mahpiyatlik uqun taylor digan atalghuda e-mail kilishiman.










Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi

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Amerikida ar tapalmay kisir bolup ketiwatkan, ahlaklik, buzuk amas kizlar keli barghu?

nimishka birsinglar bu yigitka men tegay dap dadillik bilan hotun bolmaysilar?


boytak yurgininglardin eringlar bilan yursanglar yahshidu?


tehi bala tughup, ana bolsanglar sharaplik ish amasmu?







men hem igiz, hem musulman - uyghur kizdin birni izdaymen.
semiz bolamdu, oruk bolamdu, kop okughanmu, yaki azrak okup kalghanmu, bu qong masila amas.


masila, Uyghur bolushi, uyghur tili yahshi bolushi ang aldinki shart.
Undin kalsa musulman bolushi shart, halal yaydighan, halal iqidighan, halal muamilida bolidighan bolushi shart.

bek sat bolmisa daymen, ishkilip muwapik bir uyghur bardur dap oylaymen, qunki hemmila adam jupti bilan bir yaritilarmish, hotunsiz, parzandsiz utup ketishka, yalghuz ulup ketishka nisip kilmisun dap tilaymen.


hotun dapla eliweray disam, atirapimda heli qiraylik setanglar bar, tegay daydu, amma Uyghur bolghanlighim uqun, kalbimni - tenimni - jenimni Uyghur uqun atap koyghanlighim uqun bashkilarning kolining uquni tutkummu zadila kalmaydu, shunga yeshim 30 gha takishay dap keliwatsimu men tehiqa yigitmen. 20 naqqa yil yigit bolup utush asan amas, amma akida - ahlak - iman bolsa bu asan ishkan.



englishqa bilmisa halisa uzam ugutumen, hem shundakla halisa mektapta mahsus okutumen. ishlashni halisa meyli, halimisa mayli, men bakalaymen, shundakla heq bolmighanda 3 kiz, 3 oghul parzandim bolsa digan umuttimen.


men bakla igiz, 179 kg, tamakni kop yaymen, kuldak ishlashni, begdak yiyishni yahshi kurumen, harak - tamaka - kimar - yalghanqilik - poqiliklardin yirakmen. bazida herip - qarqap ketsam keqta uhlighanda horakmu tartip koyudikanmen (bazida shundak bolidikan, men bilmidim, amma dostim shundak didi)

men nuwatta mashina sodisi, remontqilik, yuk toshush, top tarkitish katarlik ishlarni kilidighan bir shirkatta mokum ishlaymen, kirimim yahshi, uyum bar, hammer mashinam bar, tamak etishka heli epim bar, kiyimlarni yuyush, uy tazlash, pakiz yurush mening aditim, hetta sakal - burutlirimnimu her kuni pakiz kirip, badanlirimni pakiz tutup yurushni yahshi kurumen.


taylor98765432@yahoo.com arkilik men bilan alaka kilisharsizlar, kandak?

mening uyghurqa ismim bar, amma mahpiyatlik uqun taylor digan atalghuda e-mail kilishiman.

[Unregistered]

aldi bilan tarim yilpizigha muwapik bir Uyghur - musulman hanim kerak, kaysinglar talayliksizlar?






Kadirli Uyghur Boytak Yigit - Kizlar:



Nuwatta Amerikida 800 din artuk Uyghur boytak yigit - kiz bar.
Sharkiy Turkistandin wa Uyghurlar Toplushup Olturaklashkan Ottura Asiyadiki Turkiy Dowlatlardin Bashka, 189 dowlat - rayonda okuwatkan, kuqman bolup turuwatkan, panalik tiligan, ardin/ayalidin ajrashkandin keyin yillap boytak bolup ketiwatkan Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sani nuwatta 15 mingdin ashidu !


Bazi dowlat - rayonlardiki Uyghur boytaklarning amiliy sanida kiz-hanimlarning igalligan amiliy nisbiti yigit -arlardin artuk bolup ketiwatkan ahwallarmu kurunarlik boliwatidu.


Yekinki bir naqqa yillardin beri qat - allardiki qat - dowlatlarning nopusida, yaki hitay nopusida, yaki heqkandak dowlat - rayon tawaligi bolmighan ahwalda hayat kaquriwatkan boytaklarning amiliy sanida yashlish nisbiti ottura yashliklar wa qonglarning nisbitin kurunarlik kupuyuwatidu.


Boytaklarning toy kilip bakmighan tughma boytak, jorisi kaza kilishtin barlikka kalgan talaysiz boytak, ar/ayalidin ajrashkan bahitsiz boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta kalghan amma birga kelish ehtimallighi bolmighan sarsan boytak, eri/ayali bashka dowlatta bar turupmu amma uzuni boytak dawalghan suniiy boytak, salamatligi toy kilishka yar barmaydighan meyip boytak, toy kilishka puli yok namrat boytak, puli bolsimu jora tapalmaywatkan amatsiz boytak, ar/hoton tallap-tallap-tallap ahiri kerip katkan yaratmas - yarimas boytak, harak-qekimlik-haramtamaklik bilan nazardin kalghan yarimas boytak, uzuni boytaklikka atiwatkan rahiba boytak, eri/ayali bashkilarni koghlap katkan kalduk boytak ..... katarlik kop hil-turi bolup, Uyghur boytak ar/ayallardimu yukurki tiplarning hammisi mawjut !


Heqbir oghul bala azaldin uzuni - uzi hatma-sunnat kiliwalalmighandak, toynimu palani bilan, pukuni qaghda kilip, ailiwi turmushni mundak bashlayman diguli zadila bolmaydu. Hammisi ALLAHning ilkida !


Qunki nika soda amas !
Nika tepishmak amas !
Nika ar bilan ayal ottursidiki addila tuzushuwalidighan tohtamnama amas !
Ar, Ayal, Nika, aila, jamiyat, wa kanuniyatning heqkaysisi azaldin bizning iradimizga bakkan amas, ham hargiz bakmaydu !
Nika azaldin gahyip, yani nika Yaratkuqi ALLAHning ilkida !


Nuwatta Qat-allarda yashawatkan barlik boytaklar yolukkan, wa hal kilishka tegishlik addi masila, hargizmu bashka jaylardin ALI SUPATLIK ham EQIRKAP KATKAN boytaklarni ularning hayatlik qambiriga dairisiga koplap import kilip kelip andin masilini hal kilish bolmastin, balki dal uzi yashawatkan dowlat - rayonlardiki boytak ar - ayallar bir - birsiga intilish, ishinish, hurmat kilish, yol koyush, qong masililarni ortak oylushush, kiqik masililarga amal bar yar - yulakta bolush asasida yol koyush, dowlatning amiliy siyasiy, ihtisady, tabbiy wa ijtimaiy nohtusidin qikish kilish wa Uyghur jamiyitining shu dowlattiki inaklik - ijillik - imanlik kaypiyatigha wa jamaatning uyushushigha karash kerak.


Yekinda man bir naqqa Uyghurning nika ishigha arlashtim.
Malum bir boytak ar watanda kop okuyalmighan, qat-alga qikkandin keyin uzuning akli, ahlaki, jismaniy kuqiga taynip kandakla bolmisun uziga qushluk yengi hayatka eriship, azdur-koptur pulmu tepip, andin malum bir kop okughan, boytak amma muwapik ar yok olturup katkan ayalgha nika talipini koyghanda, ayal uni rat kildi. Ayal manga, u digan tuzuk okumighan bir nima tursa, mandak okurman uninggha hotun bolamdim, didi. Amma u ayalning okughunigha qushluk ish yok, kosak ghemi, uy ghemi, ar ghemi ... shu peti kaldi. Mundak dat besip katkan hotunlargha man yana nima dayman ?




Yan bir Arkak, okughan, yetilgan, pulimu bar, amma boytak. Dal uninggha yekin jayda sadda, kop okuyalmighan, namrat ham boytak bir kizmu bar. Arkak kizni yaratmaydu, sawabi kiz uning nazirida okumighan, uningdak okumushluk insan`gha hotun bolushka layik amas.
Bu biqara ar meni kursila huddi dadisini kurgandak, boytaklighidin waysaydu, amma nima uqundur sharaiti bar turupmu yana boytaklikta kerip ketiwatkan jismaniy- tenigha, yalghuzlukta kiynalghan rohiy - jenigha zadila iqi agrimay, karwat kuqaghlap kunliri mashina adamdak ketiwatidu ....


Bazi bir kisim boytaklirimiz watanda universitning darwazisidinmu birar ketim atlap kirip bakmighan, amma qat -alga kadam baskan haman, ularning siyasiy, iktisady, mamuriy, ijdimaiy ... bashkurush bilimliri darhalla naqqa usup, ilim-pan-madaniyat-san`at wa bashka ijtimaiy, tabbiy, sanaat wa bekinda panlar sahasidiki sawiyisi kamalatka darhal yetip, kallisi kiziydighan, heqkimni uziga zadila tang kilmaydighan, hakawur bolup, uning nazirida bashkilar pas-raswa-bilimsiz-yarimas bolup, uzuning asli - huduni wakitsiz yokutup, paajalik boytaklargha aylanmakta.


Ar boytaklar yetarlik wakit qikirip ayal boytaklarni pat-pat yoklash , ulargha kolumizdin kelishiqa amiliy yardam kilish, ularni uz aqa-singillirimizdak hurmatlash, ulargha ishinish, ularni qushunush, ulargha arlik suputumiz bilan ilmiy-imaniy-akliy kursatmilrani berish, kamqilliklarga - hataliklargha toghra muamila kilish, uzumiznimu - uzgunimu tang etibargha elish wa sharmiy - hayani bilsak, boytaklarning sani meningqa zor darjida aziyip, bahitlik aililar kopuyup, boytaklik marshini towlaydighanlar asta - asta yokuludu !



Erimas tash-kar-muz yok !

Supurulmas tosak tarihta mawjut amas !

Ar ayalning kuyashi, ayal arning baghqisi, aila ar-ayalning janniti, parzandlar ar-ayallik suyguning jawhiri wa Yaratkuqi ALLAHning hesapsiz iltipatidur !


Bughday eshing bolmisa, bughday suzung yokmu ?

Talik suz tashni yaridu !
Muhabbat digan tatlik suzdur, muhabbat digan hurmatlash-izzatlashtur, muhabbat digan ishanqdur, muhabbat digan amiliy kuyunushtur, muahbbat digan sharmiy hayadur, muhabbat digan ALLAHning qaksiz suygu-yaldamisidur !



Bashkilarni aldap indakka kalturush, pulgha setiwelish, tillap-urup-korkutup uziga boysundurush, paslashturush-sundurush arkilik uziga baghliwelish, ippat-nomusini buzush wa kara qaplap ketalmas kilip koyush ... hargizmu akli - hushi - imani jayida bir insanning kilidighan ishi amas ! Bundak razillik bilan barlikka kalgan nika, aila, parzand haman bashka bala ! Qokum hazar aylang !



Koqidiki natonush ar/hotundin hazar aylang !

Yol boyudiki yawa atirlarni aldirap purap salmang !

Nashayin ishlardin har kaqan paraz aylang !

Uyghurqa bolung, hargizmu Gharipqa - ajnabiyqa nikalik bolmang !

Wakitlik jismaniy hoshallikni dap, umurluk rohiy azapka, jismaniy balagha duqar bolmang !



HIV, RAK, ADIS ga dora - dohtur - shipa yoklughini esingzida qing tutung ham barlik Uyghurlargha enik bildiring !



Agar yekinki kunlarda boytaklik bilan hoshlushup, aila kurgan ar bolsingiz, zomigar, harakkash, yalghanqi, poqi, aldirangghu, tarsa, hakawur, paskash, kopal ... kilik - ish - harkatlardin hazar aylang. Ayalingizni hurmatlang-suyung, amma arilikta parda - sharmi -haya - nomus bolushni esingizda qing tutung ! Hotun kishining sizdin razimanligi tutsa, wa sizga hurmiti kalsa shu haman erip, siz bilan bir tan - jan bolup ketidighan alahidiligidin paydilining !


Agar siz yengidinla toy kilghan Hanim bolsingiz, ash - tamakni ohshutalmay etishtin hargizmu korkmang, qunki ar digan kiqik baligha ohshaydu, tamakliringizgha asta - asta kunup kalidu. Amma paskina -maynat - qeqilangghu hotun, kot-kot hotun, dapshak - hayasiz hotun, horun - bastihor hotun ... bolushtin tolimu hazar aylang ! Eringizni kiqik ishlarda mayliga koyuwetishka mahir bolung wa sadakat - hulkingiz bilan eringizning jan - rishtisini qing baghlap turung !


Agar yengidinla balilik bolghan bolsingiz, balingizni eghizingizdin amas, balki qin yurugingizdin suyung. Yikilsa kupushka ilham bering, amma daim hassa tayak boluwarmang. Pul hajlashni bilmigan baligha, pul barmang ! Balingizni uz ihtiyarigha koyuwatmang. Ata bashlimighan ogulning bir nemisi qong, ana bashlimighan kizning bir nemisi qong, hayasiz - tong, kapakwash - bong ... bolup kalmisun. Ata-ana, adap-ahlak, iman - insap, ailia - jamiyat .... tarbiyasini kurmigan bala bilan haywanning parki kanqilik ? Balisigha insanlik tarbiysini barmay, bolushigha tashliwatkan ata - ana bilan haywanning parki yana kanqilik ?



ALLA igimiz barlik boytaklargha halal juplarni, bahitlik aililarni, anglik parzandlarni wa barlik hoshalliklarni ata kilghay, Amen !



Tarim Yilpizi